p.s what if i was to find a peace of software that did what you were saying i have a voice enabled dial-up card and if i could get a peace of software that could read the data coming on from the card like IVM does and convert it to voip it should be ok... correct??
.. You can try searching, but I am fairly confident no such software exists. I'm not sure of the technicalities, but voice enabled modems seem to be restricted to just answering (e.g. with an automated attendant) or for voice mail, I have yet to find many other applications for such hardware. A modem can be configured to transfer calls, but only initiate a transfer on the same phone line, not to Axon itself.
NCH sells the 3102 adaptor you're looking for here - for about $100 USD (Can be obtained on ebay for lower)
There are also telephony boards you can buy that (in combination with the free Carousel software) can perform the same function as the 3102.. however they are a bit pricier, around $200 minimum I think.